You have received a voluminous almanac of conclusions on the main events of your life. It took a decent amount of time, then it goes easier.

What happened to you did not always result in disaster as a result. Even if the event was negative, even if the conclusion was negative, the very fact that you experienced this event, overcame it, could make you stronger. You have learned some sense from what happened and are no longer going to step on the same rake.

And this is the most obvious step.

Things are more interesting with events that were positive in your card, and the conclusion suits you. But the highlight is that your experience has not taught you anything new. It did not add experience that had not happened before. It has not spent your energy. Well, gone and gone.

And this is a deceptive stage.

But what is definitely not on your card right now is called a hidden stage. Because you do not even remember these events. You survived them, spent your time on them, but there were no memories left. Because there were no vivid emotions, there was no material evidence, nothing has changed in your life from these moments. We love to use the phrase "Lack of news is good news." And it seems that everyone is even happy when they say or hear it.

How to work on the hidden stage, we parse in # BG.

Now in your possession 2 stages (obvious and deceiving). Therefore, we break all conclusions into 2 columns, 2 poles:

Events that have developed you; taught a lesson from which you drew conclusions; you had a drive from this, you wanted to move, do something, change your life.
The events that lowered your self-esteem made you calm down, lay low; when you want to leave everything as it is and not change anything; why did you just run away when there was no other choice and you went against your desires; events you regretted.
If you are not sure about the interpretation of the event, write to me and we will try to move it together from the equator of the uncertainty of your life.

If you wrote on a piece of paper and do not want to rewrite, number it. And continue with the numbers only.