We systematize our experience and achievements.

 

 

To do this, we use any convenient format (with a pen on a leaflet, electronic format, mind mapping, etc.). Edits will be between the lines, so get ready to expand from general to particular and need to rewrite.

 

STEP. Clusters

Divide your sheet into periods of 7 years: 1-7 years, 8-14 years, 15-21 years, etc. Why so, I will tell in a separate article.

 

STEP. Bright events.

In each cluster in the brainstorming mode, write down all the convex events of your life that are remembered most quickly. These events are most vividly colored in your memory and it will not be difficult to recall them. For example: born, baptized, studied, married, divorced, etc.

 

STEP . Pickets.

Between the bright events, we enter what was remembered in the interim time.

For example, between “studied” and “married” you entered a university, left / left a university, met the first / second ... love, made an offer.

 

STEP . Detailing.

We continue to split further. Here you already need to eat glucose, make yourself tea / coffee, get a chocolate bar and sit down again. For example, between “they met love” and “made an offer” you served in the army, jumped with a parachute, went to St. Petersburg, quarreled and reconciled a thousand times, etc. The laziest stage. For lack of patience, take this step gradually. We painted the picket - we moved, ate, walked, sat down again. I remembered something on the go - recorded it on a recorder, in a note, on a hand, on a napkin. Then rewrite.

 

Pros of today:

 

✅You get an archive summary of your current status achievements. It is clearly understood how you came to what you have.

 

✅If you bring up children according to your own model and likeness, you can clearly prove what route and efforts you can find what you have achieved. If children grow up in spite of this, then this will be a sufficient argument as to how not to do it. Remember the first film "Back to the Future"? This is DeLorean for your descendants.